How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 03.07.2025 00:01
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
What I need from you?
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
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Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
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Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Procrastinates a lot.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
I've never read the book. What did Dorian Grey do that was so immoral and sinful?
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
That's it for today.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
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How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Does not procrastinate.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Making more friends is a goal.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Ask yourself:
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.